What happened to us??

Have we really not grown enough as a society to accept a platonic friendship between a man and women?  I personally can't understand why it is that people think every women who has a man as a friend is doing one of two things, trying to start a sexual relationship or already started it. Wait better question...when did every one's sex life become the most interesting topic to talk about? Seriously people need to grow up a realize that no one should have judgment passed on them for their choices. Grow up! Live your life and stop being so worried about how everyone else is living theirs. We spend so much time talking about each other in some of the meanest ways I've even heard..."OMG she is such a slut" "He's so stupid" "Their so sleeping together" "Their totally fags"....What the hell is wrong with society?? When did we stop giving a damn about each other? I'm so beyond over people lying and then lying to cover it up or putting a thick sugary coat on everything or just to throw a wrench in the mix completely shutting down and refusing to try to communicate. Life isn't always sweet and sugary, sometimes it sucks. Life can be the painful and sad, but isn't it those moments that makes the joyful and happy one soo much better?? Someday people are just going to have to accept that the only way to really know the answer is to ask the question that starts the conversation.